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instructor144
cptnmorgantoday

LDR tips

So I thought I might share three ldr tips learned from @tall-little-kitten and my relationship.

Stuffie

We each have a stuffie that we have coated in our cologne and perfume. Yes, I let @tall-little-kitten buy me a stuffie. I even take it with me to different places and trips. I even send her pics of it with me. That really makes her happy.

Skype

Everyone knows that video chat is awesome. How many of you skype without talking? Often we skype and we don’t even talk. Like I’m working on class work and she is too. Its about presence. Even falling asleep on skype. It’s actually really nice to wake up in the middle of the night to see her. When she has bad dreams, she can call out and I answer.

Cheesy couple dates

We have a bucket list of cheesy couple dates. This has actually been fun and gives us something to be silly about. Laughter is the best medicine.

So there y'all go. Three good ldr tips. We are not near as ldr as we were but still some what. We still do all the above and it really has kept our relationship going even after the honey moon time. 😁

instructor144

This is both heartwarming and brilliant. ^^^

secretwildflower secretwildflower

Hmmm… always looking for LDR D/s tips

imsomeonesworld

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daddybrad80

Anonymous asked:

I decided acting out for attention would be a good plan even though my Daddy sat me down and explained that work would be hectic until after new years and if I was patient he would make it up to me any way I wished So now he's out at a new years party with out kink friends without me and I have to sit here alone I'm kicking myself because this is the first night we'd be together all night in weeks Ughhh this is eo unfair

instructor144 answered:

Life is unfair. And acting out for attention when your Daddy has made it clear that he’s up against big stress and set the expectation level is immature and unsupportive. 

submissive-seeking

Your entire unhappy night can be summed in your first two words….

“I decided…”

The rest of your words tell me you attempted to manipulate control of your Daddy in order to make him do what you wanted after he specifically set out his boundaries .

We have names for that – (1) topping from the bottom and (2) a consent violation.

Sadly, you still fail to see that what’s “unfair” in this situation is that your Daddy, through no fault of his own, is having to choose do right by you and punish your deliberately chosen disobedience, topping, and consent violation. So now your Daddy is off without you, trapped with the vanillas for starting a New Year.

Here’s a thought missy, sit your ass down and write out all the things you did wrong and why they are wrong. Then write out how you imagine it made your Daddy feel. Then write what in the fuck you are going to do differently from now on.

Then present to it your Daddy. Hopefully doing this can give him some kinda hope for the New Year.

This was just so self centered and manipulative.

If you can’t see that, you need serious therapy and a warning sign for all the other humans in your life.

daddybrad80

@submissive-seeking 👏👏👏

This was incredibly selfish on your part honey. Our Doms do so much for us every single day, not only handling their shit, but ours as well. It can’t be take, take and take from them all the time. You have to be there for them and support them too, I know we see them as big bad wolves, but they are human. Humans who can get stressed, be in pain, get overworked or overwhelmed. He SPECIFICALLY told you it would be hectic and to be patient even offering you a reward. Frankly you should have been happy and proud to be a good girl and support him regardless. Considering the reward was anything you wish, that tells me he REALLY needed you to do as he asked. Honestly I don’t hear or see any remorse from you only selfish concern about how it’s effecting you. How do you think he feels? He’s ALONE too you know, without his kitten by his side because you acted out and forced his hand. He had no choice but to punish you. Plus he’s with the vanillias–that is no place for a wolf on New Year’s. So both of y'all are alone in different places suffering because you needed some attention. You should have communicated with him instead of manipulating and domming from the top. I have never understood acting out for attention, ask for what you need. I can’t STAND to disappoint my Sir, I mean it cuts me deep deep. A change in his voice, a sigh, look of disappointment or getting a punishment. It breaks my fucking heart, I cry and I get on my knees and ask, even beg for a punishment to make it right. It really destroys me for a bit.

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imsomeonesworld
slave-4-him

How to treat a good man

He should be treasured. He should be held in the highest esteem and respect.

Give him attention. Listen to him when he speaks. Listen just as closely when he is silent.

Ask him what he needs from you. What you can do for him.

Give him your time, your presence, your courtesy.

If he has never given any reason for you to doubt him, then don’t LOOK for things to doubt.

Be his pleasure. Don’t try to cause him pain.

Don’t test him, to see if he is “just like all the others”. Had an ex that hurt you? Yeah, we all have. He probably has too. Don’t treat him like its the fault of all men.

Treat him like a king.

Put effort into him.

Show him you’re worthy of how he treats you.

Give him a damned break.

Be at His side.

Give him reason to smile. To laugh. To feel good.

Take care of him.

If he’s a good man, and you want to be with him, be a good woman.

Edit - this entire post is partly in response to the mass of “treat women like queen’s!!!!” posts i see. So fed up of the one sided attitude that i had to try balance it out. Women and men deserve exactly the same treatment and effort.

instructor144

All of this. And I strongly concur re: the one sidedness mentioned in the Edit. So much of D/s writing shares the same focus as porn flicks: “it’s all about the girl [substitute ‘sub’ for ‘girl’].”  With the Dom simply “there,” as some sort of all-knowing, indefatigable, infinitely patient pushbutton DomBot™.

apassionateman

Sorry to burst the bubble of some misguided people…. Total agreement with @instructor144 No one is infallible, has 100% patience all the time or any where near being omniscient… and if anyone tells you they are… RUNAWAY! Treat each other with respect and kindness always, you’ll both be better off.

imsomeonesworld

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kittenwithsprinkles

🎀 Submissive rules 🎀

1. I will not hum the theme from jeopardy while Sir decides which implement to spank me with.

2. I will not annotate Sir’s “to do” list.

3. I will not applaud when Sir uses big words.

4. Sir’s cat does NOT stink.

5. Sir does NOT hog the bed.

6.I will not refer to Sir’s kitty as “snake food”

7.I will not perform a ventriloquist act with Sir’s penis

8. Sir’s chair is not to be used to pile my clutter.

9. I will keep my leopard print sheets laundered so Sir is not subjected to “those flowery things”

10. I will not yawn waiting for Sir to climax.

11. I will not chew my collar.

12. I will not giggle during paddlings.

13. I will not propose letter grades when Sir belches

14. I will not snarl when Sir ask to share my chocolate.

15. I will not tell Sir he has permission to Fuck me.

16. I will not say “good boy” to Sir

17. I will not make shadow puppets in the candlelight while Sir is tying me up.

18. I will not critique how Sir ties me up.

19. I will not go out of state when borrowing Sir’s car during lunch.

20. When Sir is kind enough to bring me tea I will not call him “the tea fairy”

21. I will not change the settings on Sir’s alarm clock.

22. It is unlikely that Sir pushed all the covers onto my side of the bed so he could shiver all night.

23. I will not accuse Sir of being gay when he arranges the house in “artisticly pleasing ways”

24.I am always the spankee, I am never the spanker.

25.I will keep my fingertips off Sir’s computer screen.

26. I will not eat Sir’s leftovers without permission.

27. When asked how many spanks my behavior warrants I will not answer using fractions.

28. On second thought I WILL applaud when Sir uses big words…(this overrides rule number 3.)

29. Hooting and whistling, however is excessive.

30. I will be spanked for leaving the caps off Sir’s pens.

31. If it becomes obvious I am deliberately leaving the caps off Sir’s pens I will NOT be spanked. Even if I beg.

32. A warm Sir is a happy Sir.

33. I will not hoot with laughter when Sir accidently wacks himself in the back with the flogger.

instructor144

I needed a good laugh with my coffee!

mydirtylilsecretdesire

Omg she is saucy lol

wiblueyedsub

This is good…seriously 😉

imsomeonesworld

I can’t stop laughing 😂

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